Monday, April 16, 2012

Bullying: How do you want to be remembered?



By: Madison B.

Have you been bullied before on the internet? Has one of your friends been bullied before on the internet? Chances are you or one of your friends have been called a nasty name online or been threatened over the internet.

Actually, 42 percent of students have been bullied online. One out of four of these students have been attacked over the internet more than once. Also, about 35 percent of students have been threatened online and 58 percent of students have reported having something said to them or about them in a negative manner online.

Bullying isn’t always online, though. The National Education Association has estimated that 160,000 students miss school everyday because they are afraid of being attacked or intimidated at school by other students. 1 in 7 kids between the grades of kindergarten and 12th grade are either bullies or bully victims. Also, 30 percent of students between sixth and tenth grade are involved with moderate or frequent bullying.

Is this how you want to be remembered? If you do bully other students, think of it this way, when someone complements you you’ll remember it for the rest of the class period, but when you’re called a mean name you’ll remember it all day. It’s the same concept. When you continuously make fun of someone, that’s all they remember of you.

My mom was picked on by one girl in high school. My mom only remembers her as a brat who made her freshmen and sophomore year of high school horrible. My mom doesn’t remember any of the nice things she said to her, but my mom can recite all the mean and nasty remarks she made to my mom word-for-word.

Is this what you want to remembered as? Think how it feels when you’re picked on. It doesn’t feel so great, does it? Instead of picking on people, stand up for them when someone else calls them a mean name, because they’ll remember you as the person who stood up for them.

Resources:
Bullying Statistics How to Stop Bullying










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